It’s easy to acknowledge
that our own body language impacts how other people view us. Did you know posture and posing can impact
how we feel about ourselves?
I watched a
fascinating TED talk video today by Amy Cuddy, a researcher and professor at
Harvard Business School, about the surprising impact of body language on our
own psyche. In brief, certain open
body language is associated with power and confidence, while closed postures
are linked with insecurity and powerlessness. In open body language, one takes
up more space and spreads out, rather than crouching, slouching, or crossing legs
or arms. By standing in a position of power (feet apart, shoulders spread,
hands on hips) for just 2 minutes in private ahead of a key meeting or job
interview, you can influence your own hormones, feel more positive, and thus modify
your own demeanor in that important interaction.
In the talk,
Professor Cuddy goes on to say that her recommendation is not “Fake it ‘til you
make it”, but rather, “fake it ‘til you become it” because eventually, the new body
language will become routine and your behavior will change.
Open posture sends
a message of approach-ability and confidence, whether sitting or standing. Here’s
how to maintain it.
- Keep your arms and hands unfolded.
- Open your leg stance to avoid crossing your angles or legs.
- Try to take up more space rather than less space.
- Lean forward slightly.
- Keep your palms visible (never clasped together).
I’m going to
challenge myself to be more aware of my own posture, how I pose myself in team
meetings, and my body language in client meetings.